transastaroth:

Saying that “no-one will love you before you love yourself” is bullshit and paints depressed/mentally ill people as unlovable for having self esteem issues.

It is totally possible to love someone who doesn’t love themselves and actually it can really help them. What ISN’T helpful is treating them like crap because of maladaptive thinking processes that they can’t even help.

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